Rediscover the tenderness that’s always lived within you.

My Story

Meet the Scribe

I guide women who have forgotten how to be gentle with themselves back to self-kindness.

My work is about helping women soften the way they relate to themselves — especially when they’re tired, overwhelmed, or carrying more than anyone sees. Together, we focus on permission, compassion, and learning how to meet life with less pressure and more care.

Not by becoming better.
But by becoming kinder.

The women I work with...

The women who find their way here are often deeply self-critical.

They carry a constant sense of not being enough — not doing enough, not resting enough, not handling things “the right way.” Even when they’re trying their best, it rarely feels like it’s sufficient.

Many of them stay busy to cope.
They keep moving, working, distracting, or soothing themselves in small ways — not because something is wrong with them, but because slowing down feels unsafe.

Underneath it all is a quiet belief that love, rest, and gentleness must be earned.

My story

I grew up in a home where criticism was constant.

I learned early that my worth depended on achievement. If I was smart, capable, and productive, I had value. If I wasn’t, I felt invisible.

Years later, chronic illness forced me to slow down in ways I never had before. Leaving work wasn’t a choice — it was a necessity. And in that slowing, I was finally faced with the parts of myself I had spent years avoiding.

The pain.
The exhaustion.
The inner voice that never rested.

Those years were some of the hardest of my life. They were also where my healing began.

My approach

Why you can trust me

I don’t come to this work with promises of transformation or perfection.

I come with lived experience.

I know what it feels like to be at war with yourself.
I know how hard it is to rest when guilt is loud.
And I know the courage it takes to choose kindness when everything in you wants to push harder.

What I share comes from the tools and practices that helped me rebuild a relationship with myself — one rooted in permission, understanding, and care.

Life now

I still have hard days.

But now, I know how to meet them without turning against myself.

I’m gentler.
I rest sooner.
I listen more closely.

Not because life is perfect — but because I’ve learned that peace matters more than perfection.

A few things about me...

🐈 I share my home with five cats who remind me daily how to rest, play, and demand affection unapologetically.
🎨 My hair is almost always some shade of blue or purple — a reflection of my inner calm and creativity.
🌞 I’m an introverted Gemini sun, Taurus moon, and Virgo rising — a blend of curiosity, groundedness, and quiet reflection.
🔮 I’ve been reading tarot and oracle cards for over 20 years, and I’m endlessly fascinated by how symbols and intuition help us understand ourselves.
💎 Crystals are my love language — I can never resist their soft shimmer or the energy they carry.